The Ultimate Guide to understanding the German Dative!

Did you start studying German? Most likely you already got to know the “German Dative”. German cases often unsettle students as they do not fully understand their meaning. After reading this article, you will be a pro in terms of “Dative” and ready for our upcoming adventure called “Genitive”. 

German grammar – the cases 

German sentences are built up by four cases. Depending on your first language or the ones you have already studied, it will be easier or more challenging for you to understand their concept. However, you should be aware that you cannot (!) run away from studying the four cases (4 Fälle) if you wish to accomplish a level higher than A1. Also, you should know that once you have understood their concept, you have already won half the battle.

In the last two articles – The Ultimate Guide to understanding the German Nominative! and The Ultimate Guide to understanding the German Accusative! – I discussed the concept of the first German case Nominative and the second case, called Accusative. As a quick reminder: Nominative’s role is to describe the subject – somebody or something that does something in the sentence. In contrast, Accusative describes the direct object – somebody or something that does not do something active, but something is done to it.

Recommended study materials on the topic:

1. A-Grammar: Practice German grammar German (incl. answers)

2. B-Grammar: Practice German grammar German (incl. answers)

3. German self-study book for A1-B1  (incl. answers)

4. Accusative or Dative wheel 

5. Endings of adjectives wheel

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What is the German Dative?

Now, when we want to start building more complex sentences that include a second or third person or object besides the mentioned subject, we need to find a way to express the relation the issue has with this object. As a result, we use Accusative, Dative, and Genitive in German. Therefore, we will focus on the German Dative in this article. 

To understand when to use the German Dative (Dativ), you need to internalize the following idea:

• A Dative object is always an indirect object.

Therefore:

• It never does something itself, but it is the place of something, and usually, nothing is done to it.

An example of Dative:

Der Mann gibt der Frau einen Stift → Subject + Verb + Dative object + Accusative Object

As you can see, the man is doing something with the pen – he gives it, and therefore the pen becomes the direct object, aka. Accusative. But he is nothing doing to the woman. He does not touch or move her, but she is the “place” which receives his direct object, “einen Stift”.  Consequently, she is the Dative object. As we have already learned in the first article of this series, you can ask for Nominativ by using “who” (wer). For Accusative, you can ask “whom” (wen), and for Dative, you can ask “for whom” (wem).

Dative question words

Now, in German Grammar, the question words “wer”, “wen” and “wem” only refer to a human being. Accordingly, if one would ask for a Nominative, Accusative, or Dative, not referring to a person, one would use “was” (what). Consequently, this is a bit confusing since you can ask the same question for all three cases, and basically, this is a problem if you study German and still aren’t too confident with its grammar. During my time as an online German teacher, I realized that this is very confusing. I suggest using “wem” at the beginning for all your German Dative objects until you are more confident and will not get lost in the cases.

For our example above, the question would be: Wem gibt der Mann einen Stift?

And the answer would be: der Frau

German Dative Verbs

Besides, there are several verbs which always ask for a Dative object for instance: helfen, antworten, passen, schmecken, gratulieren, verzeihen, gehören, danken, folgen, gefallen or hängen, liegen, stehen, sitzen.

Dative prepositions

Another possibility to realize that you need to use the German Dative case is prepositions. The following will always appear in combination with the Dative case. Prepositions that belong to the German Dative case are ab, aus, bei, mit, nach, seit, von, zu.

The German Dative and gender

As you have already learned, the German language offers its speakers three genders: male, female, and neuter, which all can be the Dative object of your sentence. Now, as you might have already realized, there is “dem” and “einem” as well es “der” and “einer” or “den.” If you read the article about Accusative, you will be already familiar with the concept of changing articles as “der” becomes “den” in Accusative. Now, in Dative, all the genders change. Male “der” becomes “dem” and accordingly “einem“, the female “die” becomes “der” (I know this is confusing!) and accordingly “einer“, neuter is the small brother of male and therefore it does the same, so “das” becomes “dem” and accordingly “einem“. The plural “die” becomes “den“. This is the proper way to express indirect objects in a German sentence. Remember: The “m” describes the male gender throughout the whole case – also, you ask “wem” to aks for the object.

The gender look as follows:

	Defined article	Undefined article
Male	dem (to the)	einem (to a)	Der Mann hilft dem/einem Hund.
Female	der (to the)	einer (to a)	Die Hose passt der/einer Frau.
Neuter	dem (to the)	einem (to a)	Die Schüler danken dem/einem Mädchen.
Plural	den (to the)	/	Ich folge den Menschen.

But as like as in English, there are also plenty of sentences in German, in which the subject is not necessarily “to the” something but rather “(to) me” or “(to) him”. These little words are called “Personalpronomen” – personal pronouns in English.

The German Dative personal pronouns

(to) me	→ mir	Du hilfst mir.
(to) you	→ dir	Ich folge dir.
(to) him	→ ihm	Du sitzt auf ihm.
(to) her	→ ihr	Der Stift ist von ihr.
(to) it	→ ihm	Ich gehe zu ihm.
(to) us	→ uns	Das Kind ist bei uns.
(to) you	→ euch	Wir danken euch.
(to) them	→ ihnen	Wie geht es ihnen?
(to) you (formal)	→ Ihnen	Ich helfe Ihnen.

Finally, the last possibility to name a subject is the help of “Possesivpronomen” which are possessive pronouns in English and consequently, they show the relation or respectively the possession of a noun.

The German Dative possessive pronouns 

dem (m)	der (f)	dem (n)	den (pl)
meinem	meiner	meinem	meinen	Du gibst meinem Vater den Laptop.
deinem	deiner	deinem	deinen	Ich danke deinem Vater.
seinem	seiner	seinem	seinen	Die Kinder sind in seinem Zimmer.
ihrem	ihrer	ihrem	ihren	Sie läuft in ihren neuen Schuhen.
seinem	seiner	seinem	seinen	Ich fahre auf seinem Fahrrad.
unserem	unserer	unserem	unseren	Ich mache Essen in unserer Küche.
eurem	eurer	eurem	euren	Die Lehrerin dankt eurem Bruder.
ihrem	ihrer	ihrem	ihren	Die Frau sitzt auf ihrem Stuhl.
Ihrem	Ihrer	Ihrem	Ihren	Wie geht es Ihren Kindern?

Dativ overview

Male	Ich danke Maik.	Ich danke dem Mann.	Ich danke ihm.	Ich danke meinem Mann.
Female	Ich danke Sabine.	Ich danke der Frau.	Ich danke ihr.	Ich danke meiner Frau.
Neuter	Ich danke Jan.	Ich danke dem Kind.	Ich danke ihm.	Ich danke meinem Kind.
Plural	Ich danke Marie und Paul.	Ich danke den Schülern.	Ich danke ihnen.	Ich danke meinen Schülern.

Summary of the German Dative

It is always the indirect object of your sentence, and this can be:

1. Name

2. Noun (dem Mann, der Frau, dem Kind, den Autos)

3. Personal pronouns (mir, dir, ihm, ihr, ihm, uns, euch, ihnen, Ihnne)

4. Possessive pronouns (mein/em/er/en, dein/em/er/en, sein/em/er/en, ihr/em/er/en, sein/em/er/en, unser/em/er/en, euer/em/er/en, ihr/em/er/en, Ihr/em/er/en)

Congratulations! Now, that you understood the concept of the German Dative, you can start to build more complex sentences. In the next round, we will have a date with “Genitive”.

Bis bald!

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